Yeah, it's embarrassing having been born with physical defect. Why do people think it's a nice question to ask people about a deformity of any kind? Can't people overlook that and refrain from ever asking the question? I have a cleft lip and palate. It's embarrassing to people with any disability of any kind to have be asked by every random stranger not minding their own business, why they look like that. Are they curious or are they being a dick? Some random guy asked what was wrong with my face. I politely told him I was born that way. I don't ask anyone that is physically disabled what happened to them, because I know how it feels to be asked. Some people just have to be so nosy.