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I was tagged to write a wild dating story. Hate to be a bummer but I haven't been on many At my age the common idea of dating was the guy taking out a girl and paying for everything. There kind of came a point where it was implied there should be some fair exchange for a good time. I couldn't do that and I did not like the idea of someone taking all the expense. I have been in situations where I picked up the tab or split it. THat seemed uncomfortable for the guy. I spent an initial get together helping take care of the guys cattle. THat was a nice day

btroje 9 Nov 30
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Love a guy that has the ability to nurture other creatures. Your date sounds like it was fun.
LMK if he's got a twin LOL

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that is all bullshit. it's the company you keep and not where you keep it. there are no rules. go with your gut and be honest.

what is all bullshit?

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I am widowed and "sort of " dating a little a few years after my husband's death. That means shared meals and coffee dates at this point. So far, "my turn to get it" is comfortable.

Hi, I like your name, Mambocat, how long after you were widowed did you start dating? I've been a widower for 2 years and just getting out there,

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here's the rule to go by unless predetermined that the bill should be split , if the man ask the woman out then the man pays , if the woman ask the man out the woman pays /. sounds fair to me

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That was how it was when I was dating. Having been married for 50+ years, I wouldn't know where to start now. It's a good thing my wife and I are in decent health. I must say that when I was dating I expected no "favors" other than the chance to get to know a girl. I hope you have many nice days.

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