Yet males shouldn't feel the need to enter every open space.

@AnonySchmoose True. However, in the words of Zorba the Greek: "If a woman calls a man to her bed and he does not go, THAT is a sin."

Maybe knowing v's might not be reversible would make a man seriously consider not rushing into any merely handy sexual relationship.

All through history woman were often forced into a complicated and inconvenient role.

Yep ... White wasps should be forced under
threat of sterilization to read them.

Got a pair of really small shoes? How about some plants for that sickness? Want not to pay taxes to the church, state, king, overlord? Women have to speak up and do something including telling their husbands and boyfriends that sex is off the table until these bastards are out. And the laws changed. Women have more power than realized, they have to use it in their best interests.