I’m very Alan Wattsian: I’ve been up. I’ve been down. I can’t expect anyone to stay awake all the time. And I can’t expect anyone to do the right thing all the time. The fact that we’re all around proves to me that the good, for the most part, prevails over the bad. Therefore, many people overrate their goodness and underrate their badness or viceversa, according to whatever they allow to lead them away from whatever it is that makes things better.
 ArturoS
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Apr 28, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    ArturoS
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Apr 28, 2018                                            
                                        I love hearing from friends. I think it’s very underrated to get a phone call or visit. We’ve lost something so personal by always texting or messaging. I think extravagant gifts are overrated because we just don’t need any more stuff. Give me you or your time.
 sophmag
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Apr 27, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    sophmag
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Apr 27, 2018                                            
                                        underrated is I'll pray for you,which is nothing.overrated is conditional love,i love you if you do this.
 oldsinner111
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    oldsinner111
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        It is an oxymoron for me...I was not loved (they never showed approval or affection) by my parents therefore, I avoided them and would find any attempt at closeness (beyond childhood years), to be a source of annoyance. It should be noted that I am a high-functioning Aspberger's Syndrome person. As an Aspberger's I view affectionate gestures as insincere attempts at manipulation.
 dahermit
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    dahermit
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Overrated.... Christmas gifts and birthday gifts
Underrated.... buying me stuff you thought i might need. Ive got so much stuff. Geeze!
 BucketlistBob
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    BucketlistBob
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Overrated: Meaningless gifts.
Underrated: Clean house, listening and remembering important details, being active in my life, being adventerous.
 Alimacbean
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Alimacbean
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Under - simply letting me know your thinking about me
Over - obligatory holiday gifts (v-day, etc.)
 KnowThyself
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    KnowThyself
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        The  Emoji and “thoughts and prayers” is the most overrated.
Being there everyday for the little things in life is the most underrated. 
 Iloatheusernames
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Iloatheusernames
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Underrated: a clean house
Overrated: flowers at work.
 Lethallips
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Lethallips
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Hello how are u doing, My name is gloria oduro
 gloriaoduro
                                                
                                                Level 2
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    gloriaoduro
                                                
                                                Level 2
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Random. But hello.
Hi!
Underrated... Many of the day-to-day sorts of things. Allowing me to have and express needs...encouraging it, in fact. Opening up. Ignoring a text or phone call for a conversation that isn't anything critical. Spending time.
Overrated... Well, I see some people on Facebook glorifying jealousy, possessiveness, and the like; none of that is healthy. I'd say spending money, but there is something really nice about someone insisting they pay this time. Posting all about your love on Facebook seems more boastful than loving.
But, really, each love should be nurtured as it needs, not as anyone says it should be.
 Drewesque
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Drewesque
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Yes love is real ..
Asking how I am and actually listening open heartly
Saying if I was physically & mentally more stable I could have been so much more successful & been anything I wanted to be
 tiredjusttired
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    tiredjusttired
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        Cooking for me, and overrated would most likely be them telling me I'm a good person. Truth be said, I'm not really a good person, more like balanced, a mixture of both good and bad.
 SpikeTalon
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    SpikeTalon
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Apr 26, 2018                                            
                                        In this world, that makes you good. An unbalanced person is bad, in my view. No matter what side they lean on.