Have you examined why you hate it ? Bad memories ? Felling pressured to be a certain way, or buy presents for people, when you'd rather not ? Too much busy-ness all around us ?
Once you've figured that out - release it !
Do what you like to do - regardless of the holidays. Find your happy place and hide in it. Don't let a day or days, on a calendar rule your mood - it's so not worth it !
Try and look for good in the days, in yourself, in others (I know, that's a hard one). You could turn this around ...