I have always considered myself bi, but as a kid, many, many years ago, there were only TWO options. You were either QUEER, or "normal." So I sided with queer, even though I did like girls too, but I kept falling in love with certain of my male friends. I couldn't stop thinking about them and looking at them, and getting excited when they were physically close to me. I never felt that way and any girls I knew. Over time I learned about bisexuality, and so I thought of myself that way for years. Bisexual, 50/50. But as time and years went on I felt that that wasn't exactly right either, so now I think of myself as bisexual queer. I love women, and am happily married with children and grandchildren, but my fantasies all revolve around men.I can be attracted to a sexy woman, but I am more attracted to men. I think this feeling grew more intense as I grew older. If I was ever single again I would definitely be looking to meet/date men.