Christians on this website

indirect76 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Technically, one can be agnostic and Christian. I would venture to say everyone is agnostic, but I can only really speak for myself.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 21, 2018:

It's so funny the arguing between the atheist and agnostic. I consider myself to be an ignostic.

If you were forced to put together an atheist "church" service on Sunday, what would your "sermon"...

SpikeTalon comments on Apr 21, 2018:

I forgot to ask if you'd be the head of this atheist church service? If yes...I'd strongly consider joining.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 21, 2018:

No you are the head of this atheist Church

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

Dakota322 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

I like a lot of things about UU and I would be willing to try attending a UU church.The closest UU church to me is like thirty to forty-five minutes away, but if I wanted to I would make that sacrifice to go there.I really like that UUism places a emphasis on secularism,equality,peace,and ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

Well all you can do is try ,and I wish you a lot of luck

Why to call yourself "Atheist" instead of "Agnostic."

PaulIvice comments on Apr 17, 2018:

For me, an atheist is certain there is no god, and an agnostic says I do not believe in god because I see no evidence that god exists. I think it is arrogant to assert that you can be certain there is no god. It is beyond the competency of human knowledge to be so certain about the unknown.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I totally agree

If You Ask If I'm A Christian If you ask if I’m a Christian, I will say, “It could be so.

trblemaker comments on Apr 20, 2018:

There is a growing body of evidence that seems to indicate Jesus was invented by the Roman historian Josephus on Emperor Tiberius' order, in an effort to help subjugate the Jewish population. It explains in part, at least imo, why christianity has such subservient overtones. Jesus isn't even a ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@Petter I totally agree. I am an atheist agnostic but I really don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. From my experience you have to be careful saying what you just said on this agnostic site . It is a sure-fire way to get some panties and jockstraps all in a wad. Also, for fucksake don't mention Unitarian Universalist that's opening up a can of worms

If you were forced to put together an atheist "church" service on Sunday, what would your "sermon"...

LEPeff comments on Apr 20, 2018:

You could pass the condoms out in collection plates!

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

That was exactly my thought. After all ,it is better to give than receive.

If you were forced to put together an atheist "church" service on Sunday, what would your "sermon"...

Jenmcjen comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Awesome and hilarious ideas but I do wish there was something sorta like this because the one thing I miss about church is the community.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I agree me too.

If you were forced to put together an atheist "church" service on Sunday, what would your "sermon"...

KingofHarts comments on Apr 20, 2018:

IDK 'bout the sermon, but I'd pass the offering plate around early in the service and send the deacons to liquor store for the after service "fellowship" refreshments.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I definitely would be there.

If you were forced to put together an atheist "church" service on Sunday, what would your "sermon"...

Suffolkian comments on Apr 20, 2018:

"Welcome my brothers and sisters..... Today.... we're going to learn how to smoke the perfect pork chops....."

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I'd be there for that one

If you were forced to put together an atheist "church" service on Sunday, what would your "sermon"...

ldrazt comments on Apr 20, 2018:

I would aim for something educational but also fun... with a strong emphasis on community. To be honest, I’ve been thinking of joining a church just for that sense of community. I live in a town where I don’t really know many people and that’s always everyone’s first recommendation when I ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I'd be there

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

Beach_slim comments on Apr 20, 2018:

I don't go there because it's just not intellectually stimulating

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@sarahjustme it is true. No two fellowships are exactly alike.

Is anyone here interested in Buddhist philosophy, not religion.?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 20, 2018:

The closest thing to a Bible that I have was written by the Lama Surya Das. It's called Awakening the Buddha Within. For anybody interested in Buddhism this would be a great book to read because he is a Westerner and can interpret Buddhism from a familiar perspective.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@TimWhitaker me too!

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

intrepid65 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Unitarian means they do not accept the claim that Jesus was God. And Universalist means everyone gets to heaven no matter what you believe. They do not require you believe heaven is in the afterlife either. So you are covered. :)

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@Varn it may not be a religion, but when you're really take an honest look it's certainly resembles one

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

NothinnXpreVails comments on Apr 20, 2018:

From what I’ve seen, they’re still kooks that play with crystals.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

that's a very common misconception about Unitarian universalism. Very similar to the stupid misconception that agnostics/atheists are devil worshippers.

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

intrepid65 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Unitarian means they do not accept the claim that Jesus was God. And Universalist means everyone gets to heaven no matter what you believe. They do not require you believe heaven is in the afterlife either. So you are covered. :)

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@David1955 I do not consider myself to be a die-hard atheist or religious person. Both sides of the argument have a very firm 100% absolute certainty of something that there is no proof, therefore I consider that to be a matter of faith. I prefer to stand on the agnostic/ ignostic side and say that there is no absolute 100% proof of either position

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

intrepid65 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Unitarian means they do not accept the claim that Jesus was God. And Universalist means everyone gets to heaven no matter what you believe. They do not require you believe heaven is in the afterlife either. So you are covered. :)

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@David1955 I believe atheism is a religion.

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

Beach_slim comments on Apr 20, 2018:

I don't go there because it's just not intellectually stimulating

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

It depends on what your definition of intellectually stimulating is. Do we discuss physics and learn differential equations?no we do not. Are we constantly challenging our own thought process in order to expand our knowlege of ourselves and others? In my experience yes.

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

David1955 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Well I had look it up. Unitarian Universalism is a liberal religion characterized by a "free and responsible search for truth and meaning".Unitarian Universalists assert no creed, but instead are unified by their shared search for spiritual growth. As such, their congregations include many ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@David1955 according to Wikipedia Charles Darwin had a Unitarian background

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

David1955 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Well I had look it up. Unitarian Universalism is a liberal religion characterized by a "free and responsible search for truth and meaning".Unitarian Universalists assert no creed, but instead are unified by their shared search for spiritual growth. As such, their congregations include many ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@David1955 you're referring to the joining of the unitarians with the Universalist that were at one point two different religions

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

David1955 comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Well I had look it up. Unitarian Universalism is a liberal religion characterized by a "free and responsible search for truth and meaning".Unitarian Universalists assert no creed, but instead are unified by their shared search for spiritual growth. As such, their congregations include many ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

It's not new age at all .in actuality it's a very old religion.

What is your impression of Unitarian Universalist?

MamaMOB comments on Apr 20, 2018:

I don't see it as a religion at all. I see it as a community and lifestyle. Since none of these people have a deity that they share in common I personally cannot consider it a religion. They're just using the word "church."

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I agree with you. There's only so much that an individual could teach themselves. In order to grow we need people, we need community, we need to be challenged. The Unitarian Universalist Fellowship is very much like this site itself.

Day-drinking....yes or no?

lovinglife7 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

It's always 5:30 somewhere!

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

I used to have a clock that was all fives

The evolution of jesus

kenriley comments on Apr 18, 2018:

I'm just commenting for the double points

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

Lol

Joseph Campbell, who was a religious scholar, made the following distinction between a personal God ...

SKH78 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Perhaps "god" or some sort of force got things in motion, then sat back and let the things do what they wanted.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@David1955 true, at least this position makes sense when it stacked up against reality. Sort of like the god of Chaos

Does anybody believe Comey and his reasoning.

josh23452 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Hell No! I spent 5 year in the Navy where it was drilled into our heads everyday what would happen if we mis-used classified email servers or the perils of what would happen if those with a security clearance did anything to mis-use it..Ive seen people get run through hell for plugging their phone ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@josh23452 well I'm glad that you're finding Donald Trump to be the Superior candidate.

Does anybody believe Comey and his reasoning.

josh23452 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Hell No! I spent 5 year in the Navy where it was drilled into our heads everyday what would happen if we mis-used classified email servers or the perils of what would happen if those with a security clearance did anything to mis-use it..Ive seen people get run through hell for plugging their phone ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@josh23452 do you really think that this was in the minds of the American voters in the voting booth?

Did having children change your relationship with your spouse or significant other?

MrLizard comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Initially, no. Eventually, my ex became abusive with my son. Like Maritime37, it ultimately broke the marriage.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

Very sorry

Does anybody believe Comey and his reasoning.

josh23452 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Hell No! I spent 5 year in the Navy where it was drilled into our heads everyday what would happen if we mis-used classified email servers or the perils of what would happen if those with a security clearance did anything to mis-use it..Ive seen people get run through hell for plugging their phone ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@josh23452l she admitted she made a mistake, she apologized for it and she was Investigations far more than Nixon ever had to endure

Does anybody believe Comey and his reasoning.

NotConvinced comments on Apr 17, 2018:

He's an idiot, but we needed to know. The funny thing is, she did commit crimes that were ignored anyway...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@NotConvinced as I have said before Trump was under investigation for Russian collusion. We elect him president anyway. We're still talking about Hillary's emails ,we're still talking about Benghazi even though we have a disgusting criminal idiot as president.

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I hate it! Most of us do.I blame porn for the perception we all love it. May i add porn stars give themself multiple enemas before a shoot. Wonder what would happen if they didn't? Its also is not high on our priority list to make sure our genital regions are hairless as an egg.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

I still am just looking for clarification of your statements ,but it's perfectly okay if you don't want to give it. After all you know best

Does anybody believe Comey and his reasoning.

josh23452 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Hell No! I spent 5 year in the Navy where it was drilled into our heads everyday what would happen if we mis-used classified email servers or the perils of what would happen if those with a security clearance did anything to mis-use it..Ive seen people get run through hell for plugging their phone ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

The mishandling of classified information comes from a shoe designer daughter who has control of her father's Fortune meeting with world leaders. And you can apply thatt to all his bastard kids

Does anybody believe Comey and his reasoning.

NotConvinced comments on Apr 17, 2018:

He's an idiot, but we needed to know. The funny thing is, she did commit crimes that were ignored anyway...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

if you have a cock ,even if it's a tiny tiny tiny tiny tiny one like Trump's, a lot worse than Hillary could ever do is just simply overlooked.

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I hate it! Most of us do.I blame porn for the perception we all love it. May i add porn stars give themself multiple enemas before a shoot. Wonder what would happen if they didn't? Its also is not high on our priority list to make sure our genital regions are hairless as an egg.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@FrayedBear I'm sorry but I don't know what you're talking about. How does this relate anal intercourse?

Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?

buck1977 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

liberalism glorifies victimhood...just like religion

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@buck1977 you're such a typical conservative. Spew generalizations, and then call others ignorant

Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?

buck1977 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

liberalism glorifies victimhood...just like religion

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@buck1977 don't get triggered!

Name something men need to stop doing.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Stop using your vehicle as a symbol of your sexual drive.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@Reikodriver1981 it's true that's why I stay away from men who drive pickup trucks! Lol just kidding

Name something women should stop doing.

Renickulous comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Getting pregnant with dumb people babies. All us nerds need lovin too :)!!!

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

I hear ya!

Name something women should stop doing.

TimWhitaker comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Over-filtering their pics on dating sites and social media! It just makes you look like you're made of plastic, lol! Would much rather see the real face.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@DUCHESSA yes you're right I suppose.

I would like to thank all the members who responded to my previous post regarding the passing of my ...

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 17, 2018:

It's a long ,long road with no shorts Cuts .you have to just go through the grieving process. If I could help in any way let me know

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@steve148 in some ways you're absolutely right. Your grief is your own.no one could ever say they know how you feel ,we know the pain.

Name something women should stop doing.

TimWhitaker comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Over-filtering their pics on dating sites and social media! It just makes you look like you're made of plastic, lol! Would much rather see the real face.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

This bothers me too. If you are a woman posing with your daughter and you look so much younger than your daughter who is half your age ,we all know something's up anyway!

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I hate it! Most of us do.I blame porn for the perception we all love it. May i add porn stars give themself multiple enemas before a shoot. Wonder what would happen if they didn't? Its also is not high on our priority list to make sure our genital regions are hairless as an egg.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@FrayedBear I'm not sure what you're saying here. That it should be my goal in a relationship to not have any boundaries? That being a "good sport" is far more important then my health and well-being? I certainly hope that's not what you're saying. That's not open minded, it's cruel and reckless.

Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?

buck1977 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

liberalism glorifies victimhood...just like religion

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@buck1977 conservatives cling to nothing but their guns and bibles

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Wildflower comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I don't like anal sex. A little anal play is good though. There are a lot of nerve endings in that region that can be pleasurable. Thrusting however is painful.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@FrayedBear on this Foum I have only been asked what my personal opinion is, I have not been asked to go out and poll a wide chunk of human society. I try to be as respectful as I can to those who have a different opinion. I've had both .I don't particularly like uncircumcised males. I have found the only sensitivity on their penises is the actual head. I prefer circumcised penis /vaginal sex. Just my preference. I could see how an uncircumcised male would appreciate anal sex more though .perhaps that has something to do with why I prefer Circumcised males. Circumcision is a category to be discussed in and of itself I guess.

Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?

buck1977 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

liberalism glorifies victimhood...just like religion

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 17, 2018:

Is telling a war veteran suffering from PTSD that he's a pussy and get over it really necessary? This is actually where the term "triggered"comes from.

It is an established fact that my wife does not crave physical intimacy like I do.

lbusche comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Start with communication. Counseling might no hurt.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@phil21 im sorry you're having such big problems with your relationship.

What is your favorite position?

BrandonMurphy comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Not really a position but dirty talking is highly engaging

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

I was really surprised by how much of a turn on that could be.

It is an established fact that my wife does not crave physical intimacy like I do.

lbusche comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Start with communication. Counseling might no hurt.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@phil21 you must love your wife if you stayed this long with a perennial problems that you have. Perhaps you should try and figure out what it is about her that you love, and try to improve your relationship as a whole.

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Fab comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Yes. Most women are terrified of it because they had a partner who didn’t know what they were doing try and do it without any preparation. If she can’t relax it’s going to be painful. Preparing for it is very important if it is to be enjoyable for her. Yes... porn anal has a lot of prep to...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@Fab I have tried it a couple of times, I'm not anti anal for no reason. I personally find it disgusting and unsound from a health perspective under the best of circumstances. Hey there's a lot that I put into my mouth, but there's not much that I shove up my ass. And there is a direct pain /pleasure scenario that might be affecting orgasms as well .the agony/erotic experience is probably what the women are speaking of when they come

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Ginagm71 comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I personally love it but, surprisingly, some guys don't like doing it. I dated one guy who thought it would make him gay, despite the fact I'm not a man...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@Ginagm71 I was more referring to the homosexual Factor you we're speaking of

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Fab comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Yes. Most women are terrified of it because they had a partner who didn’t know what they were doing try and do it without any preparation. If she can’t relax it’s going to be painful. Preparing for it is very important if it is to be enjoyable for her. Yes... porn anal has a lot of prep to...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@Ginagm71 probably true. It's not a second vagina that was engineered for the purpose. And by the way I'm happy you enjoy it ,and I am n no way passing any kind of negative judgment on you

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Fab comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Yes. Most women are terrified of it because they had a partner who didn’t know what they were doing try and do it without any preparation. If she can’t relax it’s going to be painful. Preparing for it is very important if it is to be enjoyable for her. Yes... porn anal has a lot of prep to...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

I'm not sure if I agree with that. if we found somebody that can do it right we would love it. Sounds like something every man on the face of the planet would tell you.

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Wildflower comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I don't like anal sex. A little anal play is good though. There are a lot of nerve endings in that region that can be pleasurable. Thrusting however is painful.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@FrayedBear how does a man have anal intercourse without thrusting? Every last one of his instincts will force him to .That's like masturbating with no hands. the rectum was not made for this purpose. There is a large host of medical issues that should be taken into consideration. Small rips in the anus and rectal area can be extremely damaging. Bacterial infections are another concern. if you're going to do anal do anal ONLY no vaginal penetration after. Bleeding is also occurring on a small scale during anal intercourse, so you are coming into contact with your partner's blood

It is an established fact that my wife does not crave physical intimacy like I do.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Not enough info provided to give advice. When an older woman suddenly Loses all desire for sexual activity, it's time to see a doctor. It may be menopause.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@phil21 if that's the case, it's complicated. More than likely emotional. The only thing that could change things is probably counseling. After 30 years however ,even that may not be of much help

Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration?

Ginagm71 comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I personally love it but, surprisingly, some guys don't like doing it. I dated one guy who thought it would make him gay, despite the fact I'm not a man...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

Not to be crude but an asshole is an asshole. if a woman doesn't want to do it, a man can very easily find a man who is willing. Its the same thing.

Pet ownership.

mebeb32 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

If it wasn't for humans and us breeding them they would have never existed in the first place. I don't think there is anything wrong with having cats or dogs. Pet birds on the other hand is a different story. People love their beauty and how graceful they are so they buy one take it home and throw ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

I personally love birds. I would love to own a parrot. Birds are not domesticated animals. Birds also require constant companionship and interaction. Very few people would be able to satisfy those requirements. Most responsible bird owners will agree they are not the ideal pet for the majority of pet Seekers

I love music. what song or type of music gives you the urge to merge?

TerriCity comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Sade "Smooth Operator"

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

Her music is sexy to me too.

How many of you are stuck in a little place full of bible thumpers?

nvrnuff comments on Apr 15, 2018:

If I wore a shirt like that, I would more than likely get shot,and I am serious.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

@nvrnuff I'm not either, and I dont feel it's a necessity or mandatory.

On the topic of porn- porn stars are paid actors and actresses.

2TuffTony comments on Apr 13, 2018:

After reading the comments, I think the males are being less than truthful. No offense guys. To me porn is just a method to increase the pleasure of our sexuality. Like taking a pill or procedure to improve the way you feel. Some people express a belief that porn makes people engage in perverted ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

Thanks for responding. Yes sex is natural, fun and healthy, but divorcing it completely from morality and personal responsibility can have negative consequences and in extreme cases can prove fatal.

On the topic of porn- porn stars are paid actors and actresses.

mtnhome comments on Apr 15, 2018:

NO, it doesn't truly represent human sexuality and isn't what most people want from sex... nor has it ever professed to be! It's intended to titillate, share creative ideas, expand horizons, go overboard, amaze, create excitement and bring the viewer (90% men, I suppose) back again and again for ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 16, 2018:

I agree deep-throat changed people's attitude about oral sex. anal sex and pubic shaving are other examples of the same thing. My opinion is porn does shape what we see as sexually desirable. It doesn't always have to be a bad thing ,but it can cause issues when anal sex is viewed as a something that all men want and all women enjoy ,and the expectation is high to be hairless as an egg.

How many of you are stuck in a little place full of bible thumpers?

nvrnuff comments on Apr 15, 2018:

If I wore a shirt like that, I would more than likely get shot,and I am serious.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Here in the Bible Belt I wouldn't exactly say that I'm in the closet, but I certainly would not wear shirt like this in fear of the same outcome

Hi everyone! I'm Lisa and working on becoming a vegetarian.

Psmintexas comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Hi Lisa. Welcome aboard the vegetarian train! I have found numerous good recipes on the web and have several good cookbooks that contain easy and inexpensive recipes. As one individual said, eat lots of beans. Excellent source of protein, vitamins, fiber and minerals. There were several good ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you.

Religious doctrine disguised as morality and ethics?

MichaelFilson comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Morals and ethics evolve as society evolves. Look at the recent #metoo movement. 10 years ago the actions of men and women of a sexual or suggestive nature were acceptable, today they're unethical and immoral. Or, look at the treatment of animals over time. Morals and Ethics are a social phenomena. ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Exactly my thoughts.

I love music. what song or type of music gives you the urge to merge?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Anybody else try to Google "sex music" to see what comes up ? Everybody is different, some of the Latin sounding stuff I find really sexy.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

@Jernlop I'll definitely check it out!

Religious doctrine disguised as morality and ethics?

DZhukovin comments on Apr 15, 2018:

@Kojaksmom This is how: 1. Look up morality, look up ethics 2. Read on their history 3. Build a complete definition of both of the terms "morality" and "ethics". 4. Stop using culture and society as a point of reference, because it keeps your knowledge level low. 5. Use actual ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you for that. The question is religious doctrines versus morality.

Religious doctrine disguised as morality and ethics?

BrightTyger979 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Matt Dillahunty has a lecture he used to give called the superiority of secular morality. You may be able to find it on youtube. It's worth a listen. Also The Moral Landscape by Sam Harris is worth a read.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Thanks I look forward to doing that

Religious doctrine disguised as morality and ethics?

AustinSkepticus comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Religion deals in absolutes and following orders. If you're only acting moral because of fear or you're only following orders then it's hard to call it morality.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

That's exactly how I feel. there was always something deeper to be understood than simply following doctrines

Do you ever look at the random pics of strangers and wonder if they are sociopaths?

JustJan comments on Apr 15, 2018:

No, but there's a good chance I will now, lol.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Lol me too!

Whats everyone's favourite animal and what pets do you keep or would like to keep?

birdingnut comments on Apr 11, 2018:

My favorite animals are horses and birds. I am a fanatical bird photographer and have kept both horses and birds most of my life. Photos: 1.Aguilah, my male Asian Fairy-bluebird here in Songkhla, Thailand. 2.Me jumping a log on my Walking Horse, Banjo, near Soldier, KY 3.Me at 14 years ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Im jealous of you and your birds!

When a cherished relationship comes to an end, how do you deal with the profound pain that results?

FrayedBear comments on Apr 15, 2018:

The profound pain comes not from the parting but the re-starting - re-starting to re-evaluate, redetermine, recalculate, research, regurgitate, re-establish, regroup, retrieve, resmile, resile, rebelieve, restore, ... My what a lot of rehashing is required to return to rationality. Looks like I ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

It is true,

I love music. what song or type of music gives you the urge to merge?

Johnsalterego comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Being a guy I'm probably more visual than audible... ;-) Isn't Led Zeppelin's Kashmir supposed to be 'the' go-to song though?

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Great tune!! However......no

We are having an icestorm in the next two day, so no gardening.

btroje comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I always thought orchids were delicate plants. I havent tried to grow for anything but flowers but phalaenopsis orchids are tough

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 14, 2018:

I'm with you on that one! I've never taken up a challenge when it comes to an orchid.

When Syria invites you in for an investigation and you instead send in bombs.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Ban syrians from coming into the country, and then bomb the shit out of them. Humans suck.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 14, 2018:

@William_Mary I agree. Ever since we elected a pseudo president, I don't even watch the news anymore. If something happens that needs my immediate attention, I'm hoping they'll cut in on the Food Network cooking shows.

Agnostic or Atheist

clayto comments on Apr 7, 2018:

I am a Strong Agnostic by which is meant not how near you are to being an Atheist --- it means god or not god is unknowable now, and probably will never be known. Both Theists and Atheists claim to know what cannot be known.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 14, 2018:

I feel the same way.

What is your favorite position?

MrLizard comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Right now, nearly an position would be lovely.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

Awww lol

What is your favorite position?

BAMFHufflepuff comments on Apr 13, 2018:

From behind, but on our sides. One hand full of breast or playing with either or both nipples, the other hand fingering her clit. Neck, ear and mouth kisses. A bit of nibbling. Optional hair pulling.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

I like that one too.

Where did you first learn about sex ?

Bostonian comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Like a lot of my generation, my parents didn't say much (beyond "don't get anyone pregnant"). My early learnings were print pornography (ie, pre-internet), as well as erotica. I found the erotica really interesting, and sought it out. And, then, I found books like Portnoy's Complaint, Stranger in a ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@Bostonian you single? Lol! I'm just kidding with you

Masturbation

clarkatticus comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Apparently illegal at McDonalds

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

Too funny!

Hello this looks interesting. :)

FrayedBear comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Hello @Theskeptic. •It is sad to me that a person introduces themselves in a group but does not receive sociable response. •I ask myself "is that because everyone already knows him **or** knows of theSkeptic and are therefore hiding from him because of prior experiences?" •I do do not ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@Theskeptic yes ,we do hope that you will. You are welcome here, and we all do look forward to hearing from you.

How do misanthropes find one another?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Im a proud member of the urban dictionary definition of misanthropy. I hate people, but I'm not opposed to having a few friends.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@Markus I would agree with that .I think most misanthropist hate humanity as a whole, but they don't hold anything against the individual .

How do misanthropes find one another?

josh23452 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

They probably find each other sullen and unpleasant to be around.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@josh23452 lol I can relate

How do misanthropes find one another?

josh23452 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

They probably find each other sullen and unpleasant to be around.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

Oh no that's not nice! Lol

Darwin vs. Jesus. Who is more influential in modern times?

indirect76 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

I would say Jesus is more influential by far. The theory of evolution is great and definitely helps us understand the world. I just don’t see it or Darwin influencing people.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

It's sad, but it's true. I personally find it a lot easier to explain/understand human behavior through Darwin than Jesus

Hello this looks interesting. :)

FrayedBear comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Hello @Theskeptic. •It is sad to me that a person introduces themselves in a group but does not receive sociable response. •I ask myself "is that because everyone already knows him **or** knows of theSkeptic and are therefore hiding from him because of prior experiences?" •I do do not ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@FrayedBear no I am not responsible for this group , but you obviously YOU are. I do find your reaction /post to be intrusive patronising and insulting

Hello this looks interesting. :)

FrayedBear comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Hello @Theskeptic. •It is sad to me that a person introduces themselves in a group but does not receive sociable response. •I ask myself "is that because everyone already knows him **or** knows of theSkeptic and are therefore hiding from him because of prior experiences?" •I do do not ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@FrayedBear what difference does it make anyway ? this is a free-form .if he wants to join enter into the discussion .nobody else welcome me when I joined. Personally i don't give a f***.

On the topic of porn- porn stars are paid actors and actresses.

Sadanty comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Porn is a fantasy, many times a screwed up one, it does not portray reality, and I don't think the genre even tries to approximate reality.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Perhaps for you

Hello this looks interesting. :)

FrayedBear comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Hello @Theskeptic. •It is sad to me that a person introduces themselves in a group but does not receive sociable response. •I ask myself "is that because everyone already knows him **or** knows of theSkeptic and are therefore hiding from him because of prior experiences?" •I do do not ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

I did Welcome him but accidentally deleted the post and never put it back up. He didn't introduce himself or say that he was wishing to become a member. I think that's why he got a bad response.

On the topic of porn- porn stars are paid actors and actresses.

bleurowz comments on Apr 12, 2018:

It's a very unrealistic and idealistic view of human sexuality. As a result I think it makes many people disillusioned when their own sex lives don't measure up. Sex can be slow, awkward, imperfect, and unglamorous, and pleasurable in many other ways other than what is shown in porn.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

I agree

Where did you first learn about sex ?

bleurowz comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I learned about the mechanics from biology and sex-ed classes; thank goodness, because my parents never talked about it. The emotional aspects, however, I discovered on my own, and in not very good ways.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

I know the feeling.

On the topic of porn- porn stars are paid actors and actresses.

Biagnostic1 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

After initial discovery and exposure to porn, it became more real, once the in included in movies with a story line, as opposed to 6 strokes in the pussy,, 6 strokes by hand, 6 suck, and then shoot it in the face..

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Which is in my opinion, as a woman and in speaking with other women, is not anywhere like the kind of sexual experience that we would want. I was always under the impression that it was porn that was ruining men's idea of what women want from sex and what men expect from sex.

Where did you first learn about sex ?

Bostonian comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Like a lot of my generation, my parents didn't say much (beyond "don't get anyone pregnant"). My early learnings were print pornography (ie, pre-internet), as well as erotica. I found the erotica really interesting, and sought it out. And, then, I found books like Portnoy's Complaint, Stranger in a ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Wow nice!!!!!! Really?????.

Where did you first learn about sex ?

Wildflower comments on Apr 12, 2018:

My family never discussed sex either. Sadly I learned about sex from abuse as a child. I think far too many people do.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

I'm so sorry to hear about your experience, and you're right it's far too common.

What do you do - from a social perspective - when you discover that someone you know is ...

AzVixen52 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I just keep away from them and their disease-prone rug rats. I hate kids anyway, but the ones without shots are the worst. I bet the same people vaccinate their animals, but not their kids. Oy vey

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

You think just like me!

What do you do - from a social perspective - when you discover that someone you know is ...

LeighShelton comments on Apr 12, 2018:

It's up to them

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Too damn bad it's not up to us if we want measles or not.

Getting over someone

indirect76 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

The heart wants what the heart wants. There are few remedies for being love sick. Good luck.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Luv sucks we all know it. Behaves just like the spoiled little brat kid who is a menace at social gatherings.

What is your knowledge of religion?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 11, 2018:

It really is an interesting question. My personal knowledge of Christianity is very close to being zero. Living in a Christian Nation , however, has exposed me to a great deal of Christianity and Christians.so I would say I see the type of people Christianity produces. Needless to say I'm not too ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 12, 2018:

@AncientNight splitting hairs, my point remains the same.

Hi everyone! I'm Lisa and working on becoming a vegetarian.

SkotlandSkye comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Do you have specific questions? I'd like to recommend that you read "How Not to Die" by Dr. Michael Greger MD as soon as possible. If you want the PDF version emailed to you, private message me your email address. Any particular recipes you seek?

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 11, 2018:

I'm on the dash diet . It would be nice to have some vegetarian protein recipes.

Hi everyone! I'm Lisa and working on becoming a vegetarian.

SkotlandSkye comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Do you have specific questions? I'd like to recommend that you read "How Not to Die" by Dr. Michael Greger MD as soon as possible. If you want the PDF version emailed to you, private message me your email address. Any particular recipes you seek?

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 11, 2018:

I used to be a vegetarian when I was in college and for a few years after .im pretty well-versed on all the reasons why to become a vegetarian. The kind of recipes I'm looking for a would be a bit more simple. I love to cook , but have a limited budget on grocery shopping .

What is your knowledge of religion?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 11, 2018:

It really is an interesting question. My personal knowledge of Christianity is very close to being zero. Living in a Christian Nation , however, has exposed me to a great deal of Christianity and Christians.so I would say I see the type of people Christianity produces. Needless to say I'm not too ...

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 11, 2018:

@AncientNight well, let's say I live in a country where over 80% to 90% of the people identify as Christians

Where did you first learn about sex ?

Robbo1847 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

I learned about sex at a young age my family was very open about it . I think growing up in England was a great thing we look at life very differently than what I witnessed when I moved here in the 80,s.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Your very lucky! When you're young and you learn about sex from young people it's like the blind leading those that can't see.

What are your thoughts on online dating?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 11, 2018:

I look at it as an opportunity to have dinner and coffee with company. That's the long and short of it.

Kojaksmom replies on Apr 11, 2018:

@Rosh yes finding love is like the lottery,you have to play it to win it .for most of us online daters, the odds are about the same. I will add that I did meet somebody very nice on this site.