Hello everyone. So I made the mistake of joining "Tinder" last week. I just wanted to see what was out there. I realize a lot of people think its just for hook ups but there are some men looking for a relationship. So I call this guy and immediately red flags! He starts calling me babe, wanting to know about a friend of mine who I have been helping pack if it was a male or female, did we date, is he a friend with benefits and so on. I am not one to be pushed like that and I cut it off right away. I have deleted my account and blocked him, he did stop calling. What a disappointing experience! This is just one example of his behavior.
The Internet is anonymity. Public sites doubly so. People can be rude, lie, generally be disruptive with impunity. Intelligent discourse is impossible with these folk. Delete them and move on.
I deleted my account. I don't have time for that shit. ?
It's the wild, wild west out there. It's hard to have fun anymore because there is so much danger.
Boy ain't that the truth!
Tinder is a hook up site but it happens everywhere. I had a guy turn into a completely different personality the moment that I gave home my phone #. We live and learn.
Please don't give me your phone number. I don't want my personality to Change! I have gotten used to the personality l have. I don't think l could adjust to a knew one. ?
And you let him get away! What were you thinking? A smooth operator like that! ?
Haha! Never again!
@Presley1209 l certainly hope not. A man like that only happens by every 30 minutes or so.
@Sticks48 LMAO!
Am I the first guy to comment? I only used tinder briefly, but the ratio of women wanting to be my very special, loving girlfriend for an hour was impressive.
I understand why it gained a reputation as a hook-up site, bc that's what it is.
In the popular media, Tinder very much has the reputation of being a "hookup" app, designed to facilitate fleeting sexual encounters.