Why do those who believe, feel obliged to offer council to non- believers, we have'nt lost anything, not denying ourselfs of anything. Quite happy minding my own life, not trying to influence anyone or anything. If there is another life after this then I'll deal with that as and when. I'm not a non- beleiver, nor, am I a beleiver, what will be, will be. Religion is manmade, ergo, faulted, Nature is alive, ergo, real.
I am on your side.