If one is seemingly , permanently alone even while living in a reasonably large community though they do not wish to be ...this is not a
natural phenomenon ... in this age of internet technology it is an absurdity ! It's a bizarre absurdity ...a peculiar aspect of presently corrupted culture and not one that should be adapted to , it's something that should be remedied . If you look at the problem of aloneness from a supply and demand perspective , it makes more sense to us why this problem is so
ubiquitous . Also it becomes clear what the remedy is . If we examine the matter objectively , unemotionally , practically , we see that the wanting of the ' acquisition' of a human person is a similar conundrum as the wanting for the acquisition of most everything else , only more important, thus requiring more effort and attention to details . Say , one wishes to acquire tires for ones auto , this is not difficult , with a phone book or a google finger one can find all the lonesome tires in ones community that are available for a romantic relationship with one's auto ...a selection is made , the lonesome auto meets the lonesome tires of its choosing and the romance begins . This is true of most things that are alone and longing for the one who is lonely and looking for them . Lonely clothes.
Lonely dvd players.
A lonely car . A lonely snickers bar . We know where to find these things and they know where to be if they want to be found . They all rest on a shelf or in a row or whatever , waiting to be chosen and they will all pretty much be chosen eventually if terms can be negotiated ...the deal is made and you go home together till death do you part...maybe . But . This thing called ' another lonely human being ' is different than all the other products for some reason that makes no obvious sense . Even though this lonely human being wishes to be put on the walmart shelf and to search the walmart shelf for the other lonely humans ...there is no shelf space allowed for this product ...you have to go out back in the alley and talk to a guy in a mask about purchasing a ' lonely human being , he tells you to meet him in another secluded place and to bring cash ....you must come alone , he says ...2 weeks later you rendezvous on the outskirts of town , across the railroad tracks and you look around cautiously and say " ok , show me what ya got "... He brings out a laptop and pulls up match.c0m...he says , " this is how it works , you pay me now and I will give you the password to look around in here on our lonely humans shelf for one month to find something you might like "
You ask " what if I don't want to buy any of the lonely humans that you have on your self , why should I pay ? "
He says " there is no walmart shelf for this product it's not googleable , there is no directory , you simply have no other place to go to purchase a lonely human "
You ask " can I see all of the lonely humans that are available "
" No " he says , that doesnt fit our business model , we will decide what products you get to see and which products get to see you , and if you arent matched up then you can simply pay for another month and try again , until you succeed or give
up ".
" This sounds like an unbelievable scam " you say !
" Tell that to your congressman " he says , with a snickering laugh , " but you should know that he 's a major stock- holder in the company " !
@Scotttzillyun
Nobody wants to read a wall of words.
"Embrace the delete key," I tell high school seniors I mentor, when writing essays for college and scholarship applications.
"Write concisely with strong, potent words."
@LiterateHiker ...I apologise for being short tempered with you .
@Scottzillyun
Thank you, Scott. I appreciate your apology.
I think one of things that contributes to loneliness is our tendency to reject the people who could save us from our predicament.
Sure , but I see no sense in concerning one's self with the fleas on the 400 lb gorilla while ignoring the 400 lb gorilla !
@Scottzillyun If I had thought it was so insignificant a part of the problem, I doubt I would mentioned it.
@brentan if you could see the 400 lb gorilla , I doubt that you would have mentioned it !