For those who want to learn how to talk to intelligent, independent women. I’ve only had 3 encounters with men I met online, but they all seemed to be the same. They don’t ask me questions.
Intelligent, independant women want to base our relationships on shared values and interests. If you don’t ask us questions about what those are it seems you are seeking a shallow relationship. If you compliment us on our appearance while not being interested in anything else, it makes it seem more probable that who we are is less important to you than what we look like. We might wonder if you are just seeking someone attractive to look at while you talk about yourself. We will never settle for being an attractive hood ornament.
If you have no values or interests to share with us, and we don’t need someone to provide financially, don’t be surprised that we have no desire to get to know you better. If you desire female companionship, you might be more successful in seeking out women who like to take care of people. There are plenty out there, but they do not tend to be independent. They will seek you out. Look for women bearing casserole dishes. I will only bring you one in exchange for an intelligent conversation about shared values and interests. Here are some good questions if you can’t come up with any.
Where did you go to school? What was your job like? What are you most proud of? What kind of books do you like to read? What do you like to do with your time? Where have you traveled? What was your favorite place? Get it? We are deep people. Our appearance and personality is the least we have to offer. If you don’t care about anything else, just let us be.