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Someone contacted me, alleging that she is interested in me, and before we exchanged less than five emails, she demanded that she would like to have medical tests and background check up for her to continue with me, not that I fear something, I just thought it was improper, I told her to back off if she thought I am brainless. Do people think that looking for partner, desperately makes me stupid?

Humanlove 7 Aug 27
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It seems a bit early to start looking into that...but since women over 62 have been the fastest-growing demographic for HIV-positive diagnosis for over a Decade now, it is prudent to be safe than sorry! Random men are the biggest "pollinators" causing the problem, sorry......

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Maybe she wants to fuck your brains out but just wants to make sure your clean. Tell her if she get checked you will follow suit.

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DANGER, WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!!

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I've found things , over the years , to work in the other direction . I find men enthusiastic about having sex , but can't be bothered to get tested for AIDS . This in a county where they were providing free AIDS testing . I'm clean and plan to stay that way .

Testing for HIV and other STDs is not the problem, I have done it 1000 times, the way she demands it was a problem.

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Has she asked you for money to help pay for anything? That's a sure sign of a scam. Otherwise, sounds like she's just a little loopy, perhaps had a bad experience with meeting someone in similar circumstances.

godef Level 7 Aug 27, 2018
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Good call. Sounds suspicious

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You should have asked her for a psych. eval!

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Unreasonable requests as I see it .

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Good grief! I understand being careful but that's not much of a way to break into a potential new relationship. You did the right thing.

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