My Nephew, who is in the national guard, was telling the family about the two week training he had just completed. They got back from 2 weeks in the woods and had gone to a strip club on the final night. He asks around the table who else had been to a strip club. His father, uncle and grandfather all denied ever going to a strip club. So he says incredulously, "Really, no one has ever been to a strip club?" I piped up and told him, well grandma has, and she shook her head yes. He had the look of amazement and disgust, this is really hard on the psyche of a 20 year old.