So to my single ladies, do you find it difficult when dating and the guy follows organized religion that even though you may be respectful of his beliefs he isn't respectful of yours? My dating life is suffering because of this here lately.... So annoyed
If anyone is not respectful of my ideas and beliefs - I won't remain around them for very long - if at all.
Hence the reason I'm single, but the hypocrisy of it all is when I ask if their previous girlfriend/wife shared the same beliefs ( and like clockwork they did) my response is always; "Well apparently religion doesn't keep relationships together, now does it?"
That's why my relationships lately have crashed & burned, they are some judgmental mfs that's for sure lol
@Capricorn The one I was with wasn't judgemental - but locked into the need to marry in order to have sex, and hinted at getting married after only two months. I had made it clear early on that I wanted neither marriage or cohabitating - but he felt maybe I would change my mind. He has right to his opinions certainly - we had to face that even though we had so many things in common, our future objectives were not meshing. Drove me nuts. eesh
@evergreen yikes that's too bad, the guys I meet appear to be ok with my beliefs (or lack there of) but as soon as the relationship gets comfortable for them they start talking about Jesus this & Jesus that and non believers are going to hell it's annoying af and as far as them being followers of the good book is hypocritical because they've all sure as hell tried to reach heaven from in between my thighs ????