Think about what you love doing (besides that ...), and go do it ! Find something you're passionate about, and indulge . Grow yourself.. Learn new stuff. Volunteer. Take yourself out. Join a gym - lots of nice bodies to look at ! Take your dogs to a dog park - other humans and animals.
I'm in the South too, don't let it suppress you !

Two things I can help you with.... 1) won't tell your dogs even if they hack your account and most importantly 2) wish you the best of luck !!!!

Jville is a big city. It will have a big enclave of like minded people. They will be active doing things.meet ups, the gym, etc.

Oh, girl...my husband walked after 33 years, and after a rough year, I am happier than I have Ever been in my entire 70 years! I couldn't even imagine that life could be this wonderful! Alone, not lonely...there is a Huge difference!

I found Meetup was a marvelous way to be around people, not with any expectations, just a place for instant friends. It was exactly what I needed at that time.

Enlarge your social circle

As an extreme extrovert, I feel you. I find chasing my friends around like a puppy demanding attention helps a bit. I also have a public facing job, which helps. I have a kid at home, too, which is good, but sometimes you want a grown up.