Are your Pets a source of contention in your Relationship. I say this because my last relationship involved a dog whom just melted my mind and spirit in a way I could never imagine. The dog whom was not mine was more concerned and affectionate to me that to her owner.
Sometimes it is Very helpful to observe unconditional love vs. whatever Crapola your "partner" is dishing out......
Our dog is best buds with anybody who'll take her for a walk. Not a real high bar. Table scraps earn points, too.