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Can we be honest here? I believe that everyone has a physical image of what their partner should look like. Question is, if you are looking for a mate then why not post photos of all of you, not just a head shot? Too many times I've "fallen" for someones face...(how pretty ) only to find out that they aren't even close to my fantasy. You can save a lot ot time and emotional drain if you'd post realistic photos of what you look like. Just saying.

SpiritBearBiker 4 Jan 17
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How 'bout you do what feels right for you, and let others do what works for them ?

I've met people in the past, that looked just fine in their full length photo - but in person , they barely resembled it. Face-to-face is the only sure way to determine your reaction.

^^^ This!! ^^^

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If your looking for fantasy, try pornhub. That's their purpose, right? If you aren't interested in a woman's personality, pay for a hooker.

JimG Level 8 Jan 17, 2019
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I have joined an online dating site and all the women that I have met have all sent me full pictures of what they look like. After that you can converse with them to see if you're compatible and have some chemistry

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I think you make a valid point. I have heard many horror stories about people not looking anything like their photos as posted online. While I find it shallow to dismiss someone for a minor physical inconsistency I think it more so would cause doubt and trust issues and that can be problematic for the relationship. If your potential mate feels duped straight away that can reduce the mental attraction. Most relationships need attraction to strive, both physical and mental. For me, only having one & not the other doesn't work out in the long run.

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Speaking as someone that is older, heavier & not very photogenic, isnt it what is on the inside that matters? Lol!

Della Level 6 Jan 17, 2019

Della you have a lovely warm face but to me a warm heart is far far more important.

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Oh where to start??? If you are just looking for a body type, you may struggle to find someone. You could look like Tom Hardy but if yer thick I'm not interested.....well I might make some allowances there. Anyway heres me in my clinical prac uniform

You are adorable but way too bright....

@thinktwice Bright?

@thinktwice You too btw xx

@Amisja lol...smart...educated...charming...witty...humorous...like a lovely beacon...BRIGHT!

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Or you can save yourself disappointments bt describing in great detail, (with measurements in centimeters and inches) how your dream partner sould look like! And i would always include a picture of my bike!

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I agree 100%

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Could it be that many people are more into reality than fantasy and have standards other than physical appearance?

This^ I would have said it but you said it better! ♥

@Charity wow beautifully said...you are indeed a special woman as well...

@Charity ha ha Jeremy can't keep a secret if you paid him...thanks...

@Charity lol no worries...we have to keep him on his toes...I like giving him shit...ha ha ha

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