How 'bout you do what feels right for you, and let others do what works for them ?

I've met people in the past, that looked just fine in their full length photo - but in person , they barely resembled it. Face-to-face is the only sure way to determine your reaction.

If your looking for fantasy, try pornhub. That's their purpose, right? If you aren't interested in a woman's personality, pay for a hooker.

I have joined an online dating site and all the women that I have met have all sent me full pictures of what they look like. After that you can converse with them to see if you're compatible and have some chemistry

I think you make a valid point. I have heard many horror stories about people not looking anything like their photos as posted online. While I find it shallow to dismiss someone for a minor physical inconsistency I think it more so would cause doubt and trust issues and that can be problematic for the relationship. If your potential mate feels duped straight away that can reduce the mental attraction. Most relationships need attraction to strive, both physical and mental. For me, only having one & not the other doesn't work out in the long run.

Speaking as someone that is older, heavier & not very photogenic, isnt it what is on the inside that matters? Lol!

Oh where to start??? If you are just looking for a body type, you may struggle to find someone. You could look like Tom Hardy but if yer thick I'm not interested.....well I might make some allowances there. Anyway heres me in my clinical prac uniform

Or you can save yourself disappointments bt describing in great detail, (with measurements in centimeters and inches) how your dream partner sould look like! And i would always include a picture of my bike!

I agree 100%

Could it be that many people are more into reality than fantasy and have standards other than physical appearance?