Sometimes I get really exhausted when I see/hear people actively searching out drama, or playing the learned helplessness angle either at work, in public, or on social media. Can you just not? What’s the purpose of being disingenuous? One thing I can say is that I am definitely observant, often times to a fault. I notice things stated or played “out of context” “accidentally on purpose” with the intent to irritate me with what I believe is to poke a response. Because I choose to ignore and not give the attention to it that those particular people seek-does not, in fact, mean that it didn’t hit me. I most definitely noticed. AND, rest assured, I can retrieve that memory quick. Just saying.
Peeps, be honest with your words, intent and actions for these reveal your character.
This kind of observation once cost me my job so you need to be careful how you display it. This only makes the observations more difficult to endure and you just need to learn to live with it unfortunately.
 Marine
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Feb 15, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    Marine
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Feb 15, 2019                                            
                                        Yes, I know. This is just basically a post to exhale frustration. 
I feel like you went against the first half of your post with the last half.
 Xuande
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Feb 15, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    Xuande
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Feb 15, 2019                                            
                                        How so?