Is it only sexists when men do it?
Example: A man reads Playboy he's a pig. A woman poses for Playboy she's empowered.
Is it only bossy when women do it?
Is it only smelly when homeless do it?
Is it only prickly when hedghogs do it?
Is it only smurfed up when the smurfing smurfs smurf it?
Like everyone else I’d need to know what you mean by “it” for this to be a coherent question.