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So being seperated is not as bad as i imagined! Better alone than with someone who wants to constantly change you

1ditrana 5 May 4
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Level 7

Isn't marriage a compromise? But to be continually harped/bitched at to change,is sending the wrong signals....

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Level 10

Been there was happiest out of that

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Level 9

True.

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Level 7

Prior to my divorce many moons ago, I remember saying to myself “I’d rather be miserable with you than to be alone”.

That statement shocked me - in the way I needed to be shocked. It clarified that I needed to respect myself.

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Level 9

The constant criticism, spoken or not, the stick-in-the mud attitude, the do not smile it is inappropriate to be happy....should have got out Decades earlier

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Level 7

Yep. I'm doing this now. The constant negativity got me.

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Stay away from anyone who wants to change you. Find someone who makes you want to be a better person, in your own way, for them - and they for you.

1of5 Level 8 May 4, 2019
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I have always found it's better to be alone than with someone who only sees flaws. I have never felt more alone than being in the presence of an intimate partner who makes you feel bad about yourself.

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