Yeah I can see that and I agree. In the last six years I've become very sedentary working on my social/company goals. But I also try to balance it out by going to the gym (try) three times a week.

I use to go hiking and or drive out for the weekend to the Oregon beach. But now I use the excuse of having less disposable income and house chores (which honestly I put off until the weekends) to occupy my "free" time.

It is a never ending cycle as of late.

Sure, agreed.
In the last few relationships I was in I purposely looked for those with little to no similarities and to be fair it wasn't the differences (or the similarities) that was the problem. The problem was the differences in our needs and wants out of the relationship.

At least you’re seeing someone- congrats!