Just had a conversation with Eric... the joke was to be careful what to wish for... but this triggered a memory flash back told him.. fuck my life full of traumas name a trauma that i have not experienced.
Yet im still here stronger than ever nothing had successfully defeated me not even depression...
Can't be grateful to traumas and how they shaped the person that i love today... but it's nothing of my own doing.. I'm a product of natured.. our strength shows who we are through difficult times and our ability to over come the obstacles..
The only I'm truly grateful for and consider myself lucky is my genetics which made my looks and my brain's writing..
Everything else is my own hard work and my own self discipline. I glad that Eric got to enjoy that in me as he's worth every positive outcome my life's experience has to show for.
If had a trauma and still struggling i can help you with my own experience through which you might find an angle of approaching your battle with it..
My only thing i really wish people to all have is pure love... love yourself and love others no expectations no conditions.. reach out and hold hands and embrace people even when they look they had ot all figured out.. you don't know the burning loneliness inside them in their own battles till they open up to you...
Peace!