I was with a catholic for 20 years, married for 13. She went to church rarely but her mother and father were staunch catholics. I would debate her father and was surprised that he accepted my beliefs.

It ended in divorce when I caught her cheating. She was a physically beautiful woman and I thought was the love of my life. I told her every day how beautiful she was and did so in various ways so as not to sound too canned and so I wouldn't be taken for granted.

Apparently someone else started complimenting her also. He was on assignment and talked her into a "brief affair." I found out and thought about working things out... Until I found her trying to contact the guy again after she was caught... Trust gone... Marriage ended.

I still love her, I still miss her. But then I miss a lot of things that are bad for me!