Making sure I am doing some self care as well since today is also the 4 year anniversary of my Mom's death. And the break up has not been bad. I am not nearly as upset as I thought I would be. And I am super proud of myself for being true to what is important to me. Perhaps that is why I am not so upset And it is not because I did not care for this person very much. I think knowing it was not going to work and would only make me unhappy in the long run is keeping the blues at bay. So maybe that is growth on my part! Anyone else have a break up like this?