I think what I've been feeling lately might be described as a "crush" on somebody I work with. If my assessment is correct, it would be my first one since 2003.
He's smart, funny, my age, and we have a lot in common. He's also about 400 lbs., so let's just keep this between us.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Sounds like his weight isn't a deal-breaker so much as being co-workers and his ex still in the picture, so you wouldn't consider going for more with him, but I'd still just enjoy the feeling for what it is. I used to dread crushes, but as long as I can manage them and know the reality, they're kind of nice when they happen. Reminds me I still have that desire for meaningful companionship.
bleurowz
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Oct 10, 2019
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I have a crush on a woman I met several weeks ago. This happens to me once-in-awhile, and it's really distracting and inconvenient. She's really sweet, but I think she's bi-polar.
BitFlipper
Level 8
Oct 10, 2019
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Makes me feel featherweight @ 300 # six feet 5"
GreenAtheist
Level 8
Oct 10, 2019
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Sounds like this terrific man could benefit from having somebody care enough about him and his health to help him cook his way toward feeling better.
Deb57
Level 8
Oct 10, 2019
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The only person I can control and change is myself.
Maybe she wants somethjng out of a romance besides having a project. maybe she respects him more than that.
Don't let him crush you.
LiterateHiker
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Oct 10, 2019
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During sex.
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