For the mature members out there, a question. You have a new love interest in your life. Would you tell them directly everything you like sexually since you won’t have years to figure it out like you did first time around?
why did it take you years to figure it out the first time ?
Oh that sounds a little regimented, what ever happened to spontaneity, getting carried away in the moment, exploring the possibilities? I just learned two years ago the incredible experience of an amazing kisser.
Yes. We'd have already established good communication, STD/STI status would have been exchanged, etc...
Are you having sex yet? That would make a difference.
How would you feel if he were to share instructions with you?