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Can you describe a situation in which you felt very alone? It might be negative or it might not...

I recently got my instrument rating as a pilot, which allows me to fly in conditions where I can't see outside the airplane, flying with reference to the instruments inside the airplane (in conjunction with air traffic control) to ensure safety. Recently I had a night flight in actual instrument conditions, one of my first such real flights.

Once I landed, it was a rewarding experience, knowing I was capable of doing it. But while flying along in the dark, unable to see outside the dimly-lit cockpit, unable to see the ground, or any lights, or stars, just focusing on the instruments... I felt extremely alone. Not necessarily in a bad way, but the feeling was rather intense. I knew there were people a mile below me in their houses, but I couldn't see a thing. Just darkness.

Of course one can feel alone even when surrounded by people. "Alone in a crowd." A somewhat different phenomenon... But to me this highlights the obvious fact that although we're all part of humanity, there isn't a "force" (to borrow from Star Wars) that connects us and binds us. We all live inside our own minds and can so easily become isolated from one another.

If we can be that isolated from people within physical reach, how much more isolated we are from the rest of the universe and the other life that is probably out there somewhere...

This is no revelation. Just some thoughts that occur.

Omnedon 7 Jan 6
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My father was a pilot and aircraft mechanic who worked for a Cessna dealership. He helped dig more than one private plane out of a crater over the years. He always talked about how easy it is to think you're right side up and climbing when you're actually upside down and diving. "Always trust your instruments" was what he said every time. I've never had occasion to employ that advice but I've seen many instances where it should have been. The death of JFK Jr comes to mind.

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Yes, out on a hike last year, it should have been an easy soft hike on a well used path, so no real danger going alone, and of course I did not bother to tell anyone where I was going, which was really stupid. But three quarters the way along the gorge I was walking though, I found it was blocked by a land slide, mainly huge very loose boulders about ten feet across. I decided, despite the dangers of injury, to climb over it. Then found that it went on for nearly a quarter mile. It soon became obvious when I got to the other side that the path was not being used any more because of the blockage and was nearly overgrown, with no signs of traffic. But I pressed on to finish, and took another route back, only to find a similar problem on that route, but I had to keep going as night was now coming on, it was hot and my water was used, turning back was not an option. The thought occurred that if I was injured, there was no way I could crawl out, and it could be days before anyone found me.

@Omnedon Yes still here. Made me aware though, of the dangers of living alone, which I do. Even a minor accident, if it will not let you reach the phone, becomes a serious thing, that people who have family do not have to worry about.

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