Thanks @Sheannutt
 TonyGriffiths1
                                                
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                                                Feb 14, 2020
                                            
                                                
                                                    TonyGriffiths1
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Feb 14, 2020                                            
                                        Life is what it is.
Hopefully the algorithms of life formulate to your advantage and you will have more positives than negatives in your life
 of-the-mountain
                                                
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                                                Feb 13, 2020
                                            
                                                
                                                    of-the-mountain
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Feb 13, 2020                                            
                                        SOME strong women are perceived...
 mischl
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Feb 13, 2020
                                            
                                                
                                                    mischl
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Feb 13, 2020                                            
                                        Also: SOME people perceive...
Strong women and men are often perceived as strong people, cold mean mean people are usual perceive as nasty bastards because they usually are.
Gender or sex has nothing to do with it, being a bastard has never been the unique province of one gender or the other, every has the right to be an arsehole if they are willing to live with the consequences.
 LenHazell53
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Feb 13, 2020
                                            
                                                
                                                    LenHazell53
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Feb 13, 2020                                            
                                        And sometimes as with some men, they are just mean and cold.
 Sticks48
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Feb 13, 2020
                                            
                                                
                                                    Sticks48
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Feb 13, 2020                                            
                                        @MissKathleen Everyone can come up with excuses. If it is not genetic or medical it can be corrected by the person themselves if they wish to.
@MissKathleen I'm not that smart and there is help if one wishes to change. Some people are quite comfortable being cold and mean. I have known a few.
@MissKathleen Not really, but thank you.