One thing I've never quite understood is the "come here, go away" type relationship. I just got out of one where she wanted space, but she wanted closeness. I was kept on the hook all the time, and never knew where I stood. Once in the same night, she wanted to progress the relationship, then pushed me away. I'm straight ahead, and I couldn't do that. I'm not saying I'm great or anything. I know she's had relationship problems before that she had no control over. It's almost like she's not used to someone accepting her for who she was. Sigh. Sorry to go on like this, but She texted me today telling me she didn't want to give mixed signals, so our date for tomorrow is off. It hurt like hell, but I pulled the plug. NO relationship should result in being worried all the time.