I have a friend who I love dearly, She has an issue I don't know how to address though. She feels she knows whats best for everyone, dishes out unsolicited advice and becomes hurt and angry when people don't take her advice.
I've tried gently pointing out that you can't MAKE people do anything and that she would be less stressed if she said her piece and let go. People get offended and annoyed by this in her work and personal life. I see where this behaviour is destructive to her but I'm Not getting through AND I feel like a hypocrite for doing the same thing I'm calling her out for.