I've screwed up again. I started chatting with a guy on a dating site and he seemed nice. Not creepy,said things that I thought were him trying to be funny. After talking to him for a couple days,I've realised he's just not the sharpest tool in the shed. He repeats the same empty phrases over and over doesn't have any serious interests and to be frank bores the shit out of me. I'm going to have to disconnect and its going to suck because I really don't want to hurt his feelings. He seems genuinely respectful and nice. Why is dating so fricking hard? Aaaaaagh. Nice guys don't have anything to talk about and the fun ones all seem to turn out to be dudes trying to cheat on their spouses.
I have found jerks online and in RL. I do not understand some men either. I had given it up until recently. I have been ask out in RL and I have had some chats.meet for coffee episodes that started on line. They start with the do you think we can hook up. I get up and leave. One followed me clear to my car begging me to go sit in here car with him. I never said a word to this one. When I got home I called my married daughter to ask if hook up meant screw. She said yes. I gave up. It is 20 years since my last RL 4 yr relationship. I thought maybe things changed so I see if that last special man I would spend the rest of my life with is there. So far the answer is no. I am not like some women. I do not need a man to complete me, but I would like a great guy to be with. If is doesn't happen I have all kinds of interest/hobbies I can play with. You will have t let me know how you do.