I wonder how all the sexual accounts showing up these days will affect the young's dating habits.The men sure need to be careful that none of their actions be misunderstood ! Gee it was different when I was dating holding hands was a great step. It was much better then also.
If you notice you hardly hear anything from countries that have legal prostitution, or the only state in the US with legal prostitution, Navada, which only has one city that has it, nor do you hear of a lot of any sexual misconduct either. I think rapists are formed from to much sexual frustrations and turn downs.
I have been single 1 yr and 7 months. I gave up on relationships.
That leads to a very lonely life especially in old age. Please do not give up rather seek new ways to make contacts and friends . Some day soon you will find it pays off.
I've tried online dating, going out to stores, etc... No one talks to me. At the gym I get ignored.
I used to do that. Now, I only go to work, the gym, Wal-Mart, and stay at home. I can't stand the general public. I don't like being around a lot of people. I have 2 best friends and some acquaintances. I am thinking now of trying the whole Tinder or OKCupid thing again. Idk if I feel plucky enough to do it again?
I am a person of extremely few friends by choice. They those I feel most comfortable with.However I seem to attract people like fly's. It seems to happen because I ask people many questions which introduces me to these people.The next time I see them if I am interested in them I will approach them again and during that time I would suggest meeting for coffee sometime. It works but is difficult for a shy person. Once you make a new friend they will introduce you to others and the ball will start rolling. Try it because it does work.
PS Use your good friends for meetings join a bowling leage
I don't have any friends that hang out with me. The 3 good ones always work.
I think we're all discussing the wrong things. Yes, there are predator men (and women) who abuse their power and position. But I believe the deeper issue is the double standards around female sexuality. We're supposed to be chaste and virginal rather than empowered to ask for the kind of sex we want and taught the ability to negotiate for it. How refreshing if a young woman was able to state unequivocally where, when and how she wanted sex. And that she enjoys it. I think the vast majority of men would be greatly relieved too.
The only sexual comments I've ever made are self-deprecating remarks on my ongoing virginity.