Guys! INFIDELITY - marital or otherwise - Has it happened to you? If YOU did it, shame on you.
I haven't ever cheated on either spouse or any committed girlfriends but I've been cheated on many times even my ex-wife. First one was a #10 tall slender blonde I was dating steadily. I was living and working in Miami and she lived in Tampa. We would sometimes drive back and forth or if I didn't feel like driving I would catch the PanAm shuttle to Tampa. Once I had a long weekend so I flew her down to Miami instead. Had a wonderful time (I won't go into detail). Then I took her back to MIA for her flight back. She didn't call when she got back which I thought something wasn't right and she didn't answer either. Come to find out that some guy sitting next to her on the plane asked for her number. She slept with him the next day. THAT B_TCH. Oh well, she was a true bimbo anyway so no great loss. That's not the point. But it's why I'm not too keen on long distance relationships
Cheating is a nasty habit some people have. I have never cheated but have been cheated on. It hurts when you love someone and they throw it all away.
My first wife had three affairs (that I know of) and left me and the kids during her last one. I was briefly married again a few years later; she decided she wanted an open relationship (and I didn't) so she went off and did it anyway. Not sure if it counts as cheating since I knew it was going on, but sure as hell feels like it.
As for me - I've never cheated, and don't think I could ever cheat. And I don't understand the level of selfishness people have in their hearts to justify it. If you want to cheat, either try to fix what you have, or have the damn guts to break up/separate/divorce first; don't put someone else through the mental torment that follows a person for the rest of their lives.
No I have never cheated on a woman when I was married or in a relationship.
to me that is morally wrong and oh so very hurtful.
guys man up if u want to fuck around on your wife or gf . At least have the balls to tell them that u are not interested in them any more.
cause u know some thing every thing that is done in the dark will come out in the light.