I find the only remotely spiritual/religious truth to be that od the Hindu/Buddhist acknowledgment of the Ego as the source of all human suffering. That is because it is a philosophical truth and not a supernatural one. It is our complication that produces all suffering. For this reason, the experience of nature, in its humbling simplicity, is often a liberation from this human preoccupation. It is endlessly true for me that a wilderness experience is satisfying for having no agenda other than to feel a sense of belonging in the natural, living world, apart from the self-tormenting condition of human need and want.
Would like to hear others’ thoights on this.
And yet, all those years I sublimated myself, my dreams, my desires to those of my husband & child made none of us happy. Only now, at almost-70, have I learned the secret of happiness, which is, my first, maybe only duty, is to make myself happy.
I agree, nature is a great way to get past the ego into living more deliberately, as Thoreau put it. Yoga and meditation are other great natural ways to do this. So are psychedelics, and any artistic practice that allows you to momentarily tap into a flow state. Martial arts, visual arts, music, dance, writing, sports, crafting or making anything with your hands, doing puzzles or practicing magic, learning any sort of stupid human trick that you can zone out and practice can get you out of your head in the same way sometimes. I go down rabbit holes trying to teach myself something random all the time. I think this is also what people are looking for out of communal events: whether it’s the sensation of a spirit moving in church or at a funk concert, drum circle or chanting with the Hare Krishnas, everyone’s just looking for a wave of energy to surf on and when you’re riding that tide, everything falls into place and makes sense like never before because that’s the kind of connection and creativity we crave to be apart of. The Buddhist ideal of Nothingness doesn’t mean emptiness, devoid of content. It means no “thingness” or separation between the parts of the whole. When we find some activity, tool or group to merge and flow with, our purpose in life is reinforced by its context and the comforting rhythm of the method, rather than being isolated and having time to worry about our intrinsic nature. As hippy and new age as it sounds, you’ve just gotta find your frequency n groove on it.
Wow. Brilliantly said. Right Fucking On.