I read once that people who have a mental illness such as depression actually see more of reality San those who do not suffer from it. When I try to get to a better place in my life I often compared what is actually possible vs what is wishful thinking and what is the best next step to take. So why do I hesitate to change my life for the better ? Is it the reality or the depression and how do I tell what is the best path?
Bullshit. Depression warps reality in the sufferer's mind.
I have long held, as a diagnosed bi-polar person, that my "problem" is actually an inability to filter, blinker or otherwise ignore the reality around me, in favour of a comforting wilful ignorance.
"Just don't think about it" is the worst advice imaginable for me, closely followed by "Try and concentrate on the nice things" and "Ignore it and it will go away, things tend to work themselves out in the end."
Perhaps this too, is why it seems to be more intelligent people who suffer depression and stress and the why the truly stupid always seem to be happy?