Someone told me he is a self destructive mess that probably would treat anyone that cared about him terribly. He said people mistake his politeness for being genuine. Then he asked me if I had a tumbler account and offered me his phone number. Is this a test? To who it may concern, I aim to treat everyone with respect and have no interest in being treated terribly. I appreciate the frankness and humility necessary to own one's problems. That isn't enough. Admitting to being unappreciative and abusive isn't enough. It isn't a destiny. It is a choice. Take steps towards genuine caring for yourself and others and let me know how that's going. PEACE