Tricky situation so feedback accepted. My father in law is very elderly and will not be around for long. My husband is his only living relative and like me is a firm atheist. Pappy is a vague Protestant, C of E, and is expecting a church funeral. Should we acquiesce ? After all, what will he know ? He has no one else that will be at the funeral other than us.
Other than that, he is to be cremated, so we would rather prefer a service at the crematorium, than five of us rattling around a church. My kids don't even know any prayers !!!! Help.