Based on what i've seen so far along my journey in this weird twisted world, i came to a simple realization that we should base our Agnosticism and Atheism on Love and Empathy. Love for self, Love for others and Love of all Life!
I feel that to negate all the hate and bad things in the world love is NOT the answer. Love is a chemically induced emotion. Hate kills and destroys and love cannot exist in a vacuum. Both love and hate are emotions (love is not always positive - love of some ethnic group, tribalism, adulterous love). What we need to conquer emotions is reason. Non-theism needs to be based on evidence backed reason. Reason must prevail over emotion otherwise we become part of the fanaticism that is taking over today.
Also, some LIFE (writ large) we cannot love - mosquitoes, deadly animals, some people) but we can understand why they are needed.