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You make a lot of compelling points.....as someone who has had "tall, dark and handsome", I can attest to the fact that sometimes that lovely wrapper simply serves as a distraction from the traits and qualities that are not so lovely (Bipolar Personality Disorder for starters). Relationships....like life itself....are complicated. And - if you're doing it right - living your life as best you can - you will be constantly growing and evolving which can result in your "perfect match" becoming less and less so as time goes on. What's that old saying...."ya pays ya money and ya takes ya chances".