“You deserve someone who loves you with every single beat of his heart, someone who thinks about you constantly, someone who spends every minute of every day just wondering what you’re doing, where you are, who you’re with, and if you’re OK. You need someone who can help you reach your dreams and protect you from your fears. You need someone who will treat you with respect, love every part of you, especially your flaws. You should be with someone who could make you happy, really happy, dancing on air happy.”
~Cecelia Ahern
Sounds like a nightmare relationship. We all need someone who cares about us and thinks about us and our needs, but please, not every minute of the day! They need to think about their own needs too, and other things in life. That sounds more like obsession than love to me.
It is not impossible. I had this in my marriage. We loved and supported each other's dreams.
I am a widow. I think it helps that everyone feels DESERVING of this. Why shouldn't you have this? If you are negative about the possibility, I believe you sabotage the likelihood that it will come to you. It's very possible. Believe you have it and it will come to you. It takes strength to create the reality you desire. No one said it was easy.