I got into a discussion a few days ago with a religious person who had said, "everything happens for a reason." I then asked this person how they can explain the fact that hundreds of thousands of kids die from starvation every year in poor places in the world like Yemen and Somalia. I asked what the reason was that children die from famine if everything happens for a reason. They could not answer me. Living in different places in the world and seeing first hand how 'belief' causes apathy in people has really molded my thinking. What are your thoughts on the notion of 'everything happens for a reason?'
It just makes me want to headbutt people in the face at this point. Every conversation I've had isn't worth it. Maybe in a sense they're trying to comfort themselves. Not you. I'm already asking "why..." So if you don't actually know the reason stop suggesting there is one.