I meet a lot of people! Most of them though I just hope to never meet again.
I've kind of put myself through it spending a lot of my time so far dating losers and users and people I thought I could fix. They say that's what our 20's are for- making mistakes and learning. I took a few extra years to figure it out and now, having just fully expelled my last total dud (although I'm sure it's just a matter of time before he tries to weasle back in), I'm kind of exhausted and leary of going back into the war again.
I feel I have a better idea of what I want and need and would like to believe my "picker" has improved but I don't really remember ever saying to myself previously "gosh, I think this guy is going to use me and lie to me and wreck my world" so I have a fear that I'll find myself with the same type again, not meaning to, it's just my luck in love.
I'm not afraid of being single or even dislike it. I think I could casually date at this point but wonder if that's even worth the effort. Like I said, I'm a bit worn down from the shit I've put myself through.
But, the line is out my door and I don't feel it would be difficult to "meet" someone. I think what people mean by it being difficult, is it's difficult to find someone worth our time and energy. And those are our most precious things.