There is less loyalty in our community and in our relationships. And temptations are everywhere. However, I think there are some people loyal in any situations. Are you one of them?
Richard Dawkins said in his book The Selfish Gene I'm paraphrasing now. men cheat in order to spread the seed is wide and as far as possible women cheat in order to obtain a better gene pool. we are not animals we have a conscience and free will that makes us different, I know when I'm unhappy in a relationship I have been known to be a wing walker not letting go of one relationship before starting another that could be disloyal.
Yes, I was disloyal once as a teen and felt totally rotten about it. Have never done it since, I'd rather leave than do that it just feels like the wrong thing to me.
On reading the responses it seems that either the premise for the question is faulty or only pretty loyal types answered
Yes! But the older I get, the harder it is to be that loyal.
Ohh, why?
@Sensiwoman7 Life happens and every time you get disappointed or back-stabbed, it takes a little longer before I can be that trusting again. At least with me it's like that.
Absolutely! I have been with myself all my life and plan on being with me until the end!
Haha, good point!
Yes
That's good!
@Sensiwoman7
Are you?
@Gatovicolo yes, if I have a partner
@Gatovicolo yes, if I have a partner
@Sensiwoman7
That’s reasonable.
When I love someone it’s absolute. Nothing will get me to cheat on my lady. I went several years without sex as I watched health issues drag my fiancée down until she finally lost her fight.
Ohh, so sorry for your lost..
@Sensiwoman7 Thank you. I hope you have a great day
What a dude xxxxx
@LolaOrlando Thank you, I’ve felt the pain from that type of betrayal. Plus I’m just not like that.
Yes.
Unfortunately us loyal and faithful men are going extinct.
That's true, unfortunately..
Id say yes loyalty and integrity are conerstones of my person until resently i was in a 6 year relationship wich i ended after finding out that she was not and i stil have good friends that help me trough all of it sometimes the ones that play you are the ones closes to you but it doesent mean you don't have other loyal poeple in your life or that you should not be loyal just focus your energy on those who are and those who show you they deserve your loyalty
You have to define Loyal... will I lie to you when you are out of line? No... but I will always going to check your six and watch your back and never felt left alone. I will be your rock.
When in a relationship, I'm extremely loyal. I would never cheat.
Assuming loyal is in the sense of dedicated and trustworthy not subservient. I would say if one lacks loyalty, one could not call themselves a partner anyhow.
You're right!