I won't start a poll, because there are so many answers out there. But to me having someone who is an amazing kisser is very important, I love someone who can kiss gently with a little tease of tongue, someone who can kiss me and make my knees weak and so I feel like I am melting
I once started in a relationship with a man that was such an amazing kisser, though unfortunately besides his cheeky grin, was the only good quality about him.
I don't think I could be in a relationship without amazing kissing first, or at least someone willing to learn. What I loathe is when a man sticks his tongue right down your throat to the point where you gag.
And apologise if it sounds like I have kisses one million men, I actually haven't, A conversation with someone recently got me thinking about it.
And to be honest I think women are the most amazing kissers, soft and teasing.
So how important is it to you?
Needs to be like a dance.
Twirl one way, then the other, light sucking back and forth... nibbling the lip etc...
I don't know about kissing men. I've never kissed a man so I don't really have an informative opinion. Short quick kisses are my favorite. The thought of tougue feels inorganic to me. Even the thought of it is a bit a turn off for me.