1. The best technique and care for my happiness EVER was a short guy with a penis the size of my thumb, at best.
   Early on, he had paid some lesbians to teach him what really worked and OMG I t showed!!!!!!!!

2. The worst guy was an Italian Stallion ( you could tell he'd been hearing that his entire life in locker rooms, and for good reason size-wise).
   However, whipping it out for me to admire and simply proceeding didn't do much for me.......it was Clear he never thought he needed to learn anything, unlike #1Above......

Strictly based upon my own direct experiences with women and how I would size myself up, I'd conclude men dwell on that far more than women do. I say that, as actual performance (and satisfying your special lady, guys) would be more important than how well equipped a guy is. Would the man in question be able to pleasure his wife/girlfriend, as being more well endowed would not compensate for lack of experience and performing poorly in the sack.

For years now I haven't dwelled on that much, and are just content with the way I am. Wanted to throw in there that in my early twenties I had entertained at some local hen parties, and now pushing forty years old I entertain in similar fashion on the adult site Wetspace in my spare time, and not once did any woman I had entertained ever give the impression they cared about size. So I agree with your conclusion.

I always say Size does not matter ... unless I'm the biggest she's had.

Seriously, I've had women say it does and some say it doesn't. I'm at an age where I don't worry about it. I seem to do OK.

I blame porn. My guys don't see an erection, other than in porn. Those dudes are ABOVE average.

From the time a little boy knows what it is between his legs we are told the bigger the better. So I think this question has more to do with men thinking big is more important then women. There's more to making love then the size of that particular tool. There are many more ways to please your lover, and there are many more tools to use for that pleasure. I think the most important aspect of love making is knowing what makes your lady go wild, be happy, and want to make you feel the same way. After all, there's a lot more involved then size in 3 or 4 hours of satisfying intimacy. Just sayin'.

I work hard on the romance part. I like to get ladies started at dinner or what ever we are doing on a date. And I've found that confidence does play a large part. However my confidence didn't really get strong until multiple ladies convinced me that I was big enough. But like the saying goes; there is always someone with a better car, more money, handsomer and with a bigger one the can deliver better. I like the assurance of giving the package. Keeping them happy. And I know she has to be the right fit.

From what I have read and heard it matters more to women.

This is all so informative. Most of you are suggesting that I shouldn't worry about someone bigger and rougher coming along and moving me out

I definitely just had a moment of hazy understanding, lol... I thought you were talking about body size, until I read the comments.

Well being 64 I had seen the size of women breast multiply closer to infinitum. I didn't asked for it. I had a long relationship with someone years ago and I know it did happen prior to us meeting, she didn't mentioned I didn't brought it up. I kind of knew the answer to be to match her behind. Who I was to question her. They looked good I have to admit and matching her behind.

Being just A man, my size does matter since I believe it matters to a lot of women

I like my rockets to be big, but also reusable.

Let more women comment on it... I am all ears.

I think women want vigor and girth more than size.