I just found some news clippings of the obituaries. It was my sister's. I looked below hers and it was her husband's brother too. He died of cancer and my sister over dosed on pills and alcohol. They both died on the same day. I never knew that. No one ever said anything about this to me. Thats how out of touch I was with my family. I hated my dad and he knew it. The godfather Controlled everthing.
Wow, that is sad. I have one brother that has been out of touch for over 30 years. He walked out on his family after he retired from the Navy. We have no idea where he is, and he has one of the most common names in the US so impossible to track unless you are a professional.