When do you stop talking and start to listen?
Wife can't stop beating herself up over her dads care. I told her power of attorney brother to seek a lawyer's advice and he didn't. I told him to apply for medicade for his dad and he wouldn't. Before all the shit hitting the fan..... I asked her dad if he would like to live with us... he said no. Hes on hospice now and he doesn't like it. I told my wife that we have no control of her daddy's care.... her brothers got it all and would not listen. Its out of our hands because the brother put all the property in his name... he's been selfesh... am I suppose to just listen now as he manipulates her with a poor me attitude...???
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Unless you want to contact your own lawyer there isn't anything you can do. It is sad what families will do to each other.
HippieChick58
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Jan 25, 2018
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I'm not sure there is anything else you can do. It's a nasty situation that nasty people will abuse.
My brother had power of attorney for my parent's estate and he slowly drained their bank account.
It happened to a friend of mine too, her sisters took all of her parent's money and she and her brother got screwed.
Try to be there for her and do what you can when it gets too stressful.
Paul628
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Jan 25, 2018
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