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What are your opinions on prostitution? Do you think it should be legal, and why? Do you have personal feelings about sex workers?

Ligeia 4 Jan 27
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Sex workers are just people, it is lawyers that I have problems with.

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I have very mixed feelings about this. I'm a libritarian and feel that any adult should be allowed to do whatever they want so long as they are not hurting anyone else. Unfortunately many sex workers have a history of victimization and exploitation and are probably not really willing participants in the trade. In situations like that they require protection not prosecution.

What if they are hurting themselves?

Then they need mental health and/or substance abuse treatment, not incarceration. @JeffMurray

@LEPeff Not prostitutes. I should have been clear what that was a response to. I was talking about your statement that people should be allowed to do whatever they want as long as they're not hurting other people. Should people allowed be allowed to do whatever they want even if they're hurting themselves? I mean, I assume you believe people should be allowed to take whatever drugs they want, right? But should people be allowed to have fully functional limbs surgically removed? Do you draw a line anywhere in the freedom granted by your statement?

That is an extremely tough questions. I'll use the smart approach and dodge it. I don't think that such a surjury should not be covered by health insurance, especially publicly funded insurance. I would think that most doctors would not perform this operation due to the hipocratic oath, but I don't know that for certain. @JeffMurray

agreed. even in places where it was legalized for safety reasons like Amsterdam they realize that did not work and many countries are moving to a model of prosecuting johns only

@LEPeff Well, it is a real condition, and those are the types of questions you are inviting with your political philosophy. Something to think about, maybe, before continuing to support that ideology?

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Absolutely! Decriminalizing this consensual activity will free police up to go after real criminals. Additionally, it will satisfy the needs of many men who, for whatever reason, are unable or find difficulty getting into a romantic, intimate relationship. Consensual sex among adults is not a crime. Paying for it shouldn't be either.

I brought up the idea of poor people selling body parts. This can legally be done for free, so should it be legal to do for money?

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Our society has a hypocritical view on prostitution.. If a woman accepts cash or other valuta for a sex act she is condemned for her activities. However, if she hunts down a man of higher than average earning potential, arranges a liaison, accepts jewelry, help with her bills, other "gifts" under the guise of forming a potential LTR, she is accepted, if not praised and admired, regardless of her motives and actions. It seems that people are willing to accept dishonesty and self delusion, before they are willing to accept anyone's personal freedoms.

I think you will find a lot of people who have these very sentiments as you have. I do.

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It's the oldest profession if the world. If someone has the ability to sell their " goods " and someone else wants to buy them, then go for it. It shouldn't matter one bit as long as no one is getting damaged and it's no one else's business besides those involved in the transaction. Just my opinion though.

I brought up the idea of poor people selling body parts. Does selling a piece of your liver count as damage? Do you not count emotional or psychological damage?

@JeffMurray selling a peice of your body permanently is a completely different topic. Sexual prostitution is more like renting something. And yes, I do count psychological and emotional damage as damaging... However, the person prostituting themselves has the right not to prostitute if it bothers them in any way. If they choose to damage themselves anyway, that's their own body and their own personal choice. If they aren't hurting anyone else, that's their own demon to deal with as they see fit. We don't have the right to control other people.

@Twisty420
Just came back after a long time away and was reading old posts.
Out of curiosity, if prostitution is just another job like selling your time or brain power as others have suggested, then should children be allowed to do this job? Children are allowed to do other jobs. Either prostitution is just like other jobs, or it's not. Can't have it both ways.

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I read that in places where prostitution is legal, they have documented LESS SEX CRIMES. It seems normalizing sex and desire helps diminish crime. Personally I think sex working for ADULTS can be a talent just like mechanics and plumbers. However the problem is many teens are turned into sex workers before the age of consent. If we address the security issues around kidnapping and sextrafficking of minors I have no problems with the world's oldest profession

in Germany where it is legal they have found increased incidence of trafficking

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It is legal in some Nevada counties. As far as anywhere else, that should be up to local municipalities. Moot point for me, personally, as I'd never patronize them. But, would I vote for it if I saw it on a ballot. Not sure. I'd have to do some research regarding places where it's been legal for a significant time.

When the cannabis initiative was up for vote in .CA, I was somewhat on the fence as I was very concerned about people using then driving; also, cannabis was a topic I was familiar with. Ultimately, I realized people are out there using and driving anyway, so I did vote for it.

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Im for legalizing prostitution, gambling, and drugs. If you are a legal adult you should be able to decide for yourself.

gater Level 7 Jan 28, 2018
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I say have at it, just not on every street corner, that's tacky.

Brothels are a business, hold them to a certain standard of health and safety. Prostitutes must undergo regular STD testing or the brothels faces hefty penalties.

The customers need to be at least washed prior to the act unless there is a quick way to test for STD's on the spot

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I suppose there are a few somewhere, but my understanding is the vast majority of sex workers would rather be doing almost anything else. The problem is, your question can't be answered in a vacuum. It's tangled up with what societies think of women and how people are valued. And how they learn to value themselves. Making prostitution legal doesn't solve any of these problems. I'm not even positive it would go very far to solving the disease and pimping problems.

this topic came up about a month ago. I had my opinion and did some research to make sure I wasnt wrong. . Legalization doesnt solve any issues of violence toward women who would rather be doing something else, does turn the state into the role of pimp in some places and in Germany has increased the level of sex trafficking. Trauma reverberates through society in the present and through generations. Being a prostitute for many is like paying to get raped numerous times daily

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A women has the right to do whatever she wants with her body.

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Most intelligent people know this has been a practice in 1000's of years or more. I believe it should be legal for a number of reasons. If I would pick one, it would ensure the safety of the prostitute.

an article I read said in Amsterdam even when they had 3 alarm buttons in a room women were still being assaulted

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Many societies have had legal prostitution. But, many of those societies have failed. Personally, I think it should be legal, regulated, documented, taxed if need be. We control other vices, but let this one fester underneath our social skin. Not having it legal leads to human trafficking, violence against workers, abuses of all kinds. Mary Magdalena was in Jesus's good graces. The problem is the perceived immortality. Too many people would have a moral outrage fit, if proposed.

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Prostitution should be legal. It rids the sex industry of pimps. Alows sluts to excell at their chosen profession, and lowers the sexual assault accusations drops the rate of rape . Their are no Bad sides as the oldest profession can be less demonised , increases safe sex and protects sex workers from abuse and violence.

Allows sluts to excel? You really just said that? Drops the rate of rape? Wow.....

@BlueWave Stop the hate towards sluts. Ugly guys would never get laid. There would be no multi million dollar American porn industry, no more feminist slut walks. Please stop this pathetic language policing. Legal prostitution in NZ has prospered for over a decade so don’t demean sluts , men woman or in between s. Need the industry to freely engage in mutual intercourse. And yes the rape rate has plummeted . So I don’t understand your comment . It’s current year the start to death to PC culture I truly hope.

@Seriousreason If you did not understand my statement, I would have appreciated your asking me for clarification prior to going off the rails. I would call them women, or sex workers. If you had seen any of my previous comments on the subject, you would see that I am not anti-legal prostitution. If you had read other places on this forum, you would see that I am abhor derogatory words related to sex and women. I consider slut a derogatory word.Yes, I am politically correct. That’s my prerogative and I’m getting along just fine in this world.

@Ligeia I don’t have a definition for slut because I think slut is a derogatory word. I think people should have the right to have sex with whomever they want, however often they want, wherever they want, in exchange for whatever is agreed-upon, or exchanged for nothing at all. Kind of like being a free person.

@Ligeia Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! And, I should have seen that! Using the phone version makes it a little harder to see everything. Cheers! 🙂

@Seriousreason Also, you said "And yes the rape rate has plummeted." Do you have a source for that claim?

According to the Internets, prostitution became legal in New Zealand around 2003-2006. In 2012, there were 3,500+ REPORTED sexual assaults. In 2013, there were 3,900+ REPORTED sexual assaults. In 2014, there were 4,050+ REPORTED sexual assaults. Of course, I'm sure you already know that many sexual assaults go unreported, right?

Regardless of my strong belief that all sexual acts by consenting adults is private and should never have been illegal, it does you no favors to make sweeping statements like "And yes the rape rate has plummeted," when you are in a room full of skeptics.

@BlueWave with sexual assault as broad as including cat calls and butt taps. Or you Zane Joshi type over reaction. It’s now impossible to validate real from butt hurt. This insane PC word policing has to stop . Offence taking is now a profession and it’s a sad indictment of the current world we have to live in . Less feels more reals please.

@BlueWave forgive me for not being an ardent follower of your posts . Your opinion of sex workers Whores, giggilos , whatever title or llable you prefer to stick on them is your personal choice. Just stop the self righteous policing of what others use as words in our rich language. The offence brigade is self consuming and will be at each other’s throats for merely making use of a word that describes perfectly the person or action in question. Words cannot hurt you. And if they do your a snowflake.

@BlueWave imagine how high it would be without sex workers services. Think about it.?

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Legalize it. There has and always be a demand for it. So stop trying to legislate morality and start regulations to improve publixc and personal safety. This is essentially a puritanical "blue law".

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Wow, good topic. There are plenty of good reasons to be against the legalization of prostitution.

  1. I believe there is a very clear disparity in the "control of sex" in our culture. It permeates every facet of our lives from our personal relationships to our movies and televisions shows. The collective acknowledgment that men should be paying women for sex (with cash or other means even though it pretty much seems that way now) will just further propagate that detrimental belief.
  2. A vast majority of sex workers aren't sex workers because that's what they wanted to do. They get forced into it as a last resort or the slightly more lucrative option of shitty jobs they can get/keep due to educational level, training, scheduling conflicts because of child care, etc.
  3. I don't see it as an empowerment thing women should get behind, or something much different than homeless people claiming autonomy over their bodies for the right to sell kidneys and parts of their livers to millionaire highest-bidders who need them. And no, I don't see this as a slippery slope argument. Both can be done for free, at will, legally, and both could be done for high dollar amounts. Sure, one can only be done a limited number of times, but that's why the payout would be drastically higher.

On the other hand, I see absolutely no functional difference between prostitution and pornography. Maybe I'm just selfish, but I like that porn exists. I've watched with exes and alone, and it is a valuable tool.

@Ligeia So the fact that I started writing this last night and walked away because I wasn't satisfied with my answer, shows?

I think about things extensively before I state my position on them. It's kinda my deal.

Good reply. Id like to respectfully rebut your points.

  1. It isn't a matter of who SHOULD be paying whom, but rather whether or not one COULD pay another. Women can and do pay for sex/company as well.

  2. I hear this a lot, but Im pretty sure its a myth. I base this on having heard sex workers talk about it. Regardless, this is a reason to legalize it as opposed to keep it underground. If it were legal, there would (generally) be no need for anyone to force others into sex work and any such acts would be easily scrutinized and addressed through official channels. Its precisely because it is illegal that victims feel unable to seek help from law enforcement.

  3. I'm not sure I quite follow your point here, but perhaps something I heard once relates: people whondo manual labor (and even memtal labor) are literally selling their bodies in exchange for a wage. The differences with prostitution are the immense issues of reproduction (not so much since the advent of the pill), sexuality, and relationships. Even still there are direct parallels to these issues within other forms of work

Weird...why are the bullets in different font sizes. Hmm.

@Timharding

  1. Point taken, however, you and I both know that women paying men is hardly representative of the reality of the situation. Obviously, this is just conjecture, but the thought of a brothel full on men as a business idea is hilarious to me.

  2. One need only look at places where is has be legalized to see this is not true. I defer to an article about Germany's legalized prostitution. But do you really think there wouldn't be shady recruitment just because it was legal?
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  3. The issues with prostitution as a trade are far more serious than a pill can fix. A trade is something for which you can increase prowess through practice and education. For sex work, more often than not, it's based on age, looks, and let's call it the level of depravity that's on the menu (forced or otherwise). I think it likens it more to selling parts of your body than it does to work you do with your body or mind. That's subjective though, I guess.

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When we speak of act being made legal it is implicit in such a state that there some kind of relationship between a 'superior' and an 'inferior' or a parent and child. In both instances there is the granting of permission. It seems to me any act can be left alone or made illegal.

Many have said that prostitution is the world's oldest profession. If prostitution is regulated there would be registered prostitutes and regular medical examinations. When certain activities are made illegal they are usually driven underground and give rise to a host of other problems. Prostitution is legal in the Netherlands.

and they are moving away from that

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No Problem

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Personally I think it should b legal...thats an adults personal choice...and I don't judge anyone in the sex industry...if they can do what they do with a clear conscious, then thats their decision to make

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No brainer of all no brainers - yes, of course it should be legal.... if ever there was a thing which empowers women, it's this ability to make money and be self-sufficient without spousal support from men.

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Compared to what is currently going on I think legalizing prostitution would be an improvement but we need a different kind of sexuality. You could check out my post 'The Male Gaze'. There were some interesting comments.

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Well, outlawing it doesn't seem to be the solution. I see parallels between that and The Prohibition Era. Legalize, regulate and tax the hell out of it. As for personal feelings, I can't disassociate the emotion from the act so I don't identify with those who can. I imagine for some it could be a form of therapy. In that light I see no reason to demean those who choose that career path within the legalized setting. As it stands today, I see it as an act of desperation.

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