Both are emotional attributes and in any relationship for me reason must come first. Any relationship based purely on emotions will be a rocky one and, to me, unsustainable.
@SACatWalker Interesting coincidence. My first wife was Bi-polar and seemed to have an excess of testosterone. Sex was fantastic until her disease hit the next level and she started sharing it with others.
Great sex all the way! If I want to feel loved I'll get a puppy or buy my kids a new video game.